Author: Ari Rocklin

Forced Exit! Christian Expatriates leave the region -again.

/ Ari Rocklin

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Once again, dozens of tentmakers have had to leave the countries where they have been serving, some for as long as a decade. Most have heeded their passport country governments’ edicts to leave due to increasing hostilities and lack of security.

Many have become proficient in the local language and accents, making them high value emissaries for the Kingdom. All have reported a new era of openness for the Gospel and some were experiencing Acts 2:47 firsthand:  And the Lord added to their number day by day those who were being saved.

Thus it is easy to understand how difficult this time is in their lives and journeys.

Here are some excerpts from their emails.

Safely in London now. Much relieved.  In the last 2-3 weeks there was a threat to “Christian whores teaching our children”…shooting at our school gate and 2 attacks at our local bank near our home. We were really feeling the need to get out of the country, and I’m thankful that God has brought us to safety. Now time to refocus.

As many of you know, security has plummeted over the months with militias fighting for control of the airport, fuel storage tanks set on fire and the international airport closed. We have prayerfully been watching the news with great sadness and concern for our national friends. Several have emailed or texted to say that they are safe, but the living conditions are deteriorating with lack of cooking gas, gasoline and frequent power outages.

Pray that the seed that has been sown by these tentmakers will bear much fruit now that they have been forced to exit.

Pray for the future of those who had were forced to exit and are facing an uncertain future while seeking God’s leading.

BOOK REVIEW

/ Ari Rocklin

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Tactics
Author: Gregory Koukl
Zondervan, 2009

Tactics by Gregory Koukl is an easy-to-read book for everyone who wants to become better at talking about their faith with non-Christians.

The book has two main parts. In the first section the author introduces a way of speaking to people that forces those who attack the Christian faith to explain what they believe. This is done mainly by asking good questions that leads the conversation in a certain direction. “The key is to go on the offensive in an inoffensive way by using carefully selected questions to productively advance the conversation. Simply put, never make a statement, at least at first, when a question will do the job,” writes Koukl. The Tactics author has long-term experience in Christian apologetics and he is the leader of the organization named Stand to Reason.

In part two of the book Koukl explains how Christians can find weaknesses in the arguments against The Christian faith. His starting point is clear. Everyone is created by God and lives in God’s creation. Those who do not believe in God will have to create explanations of reality that rules God out. This is often their week point.

Every person who rejects the truth of “the God who is there is caught between the way he says the world is and the way the world actually is,” states Koukl. He has found that most non-Christians are not able to explain what they believe when they are asked.

You may be surprised to know that most critics are not prepared to defend their faith. Many people have never thought through their views and don’t know why they hold them, writes Koukl.

We recommend Tactics for all Christians. It will help the readers to fulfill the calling the followers of Jesus have got in 1 Pet 3:15: “Always be prepared to give an answer to everyone who asks you to give the reason for the hope that you have. But do this with gentleness and respect.” It also helps the reader to see that the Christian faith is a logical faith.

Tactics is written in a way that engages the reader and it is full of practical, real-life examples. One of them is from the University of California in San Diego. Koukl had heard that the general attitude on campus was that Christians were stupid. He opened his talk to the students in this way:

– “I understand that many of you think that Christians are stupid. Well, many of them are. But many non Christians are stupid, too, so I don’t know how that helps you. What I want to do this evening is show you that Christianity is not stupid.”

Tentmaker Challenges Series II

/ Ari Rocklin

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Thank you to everyone who responded to the first issue of Tentmaker Challenges Series last month. 

Here are some of your comments:

“we have been tentmakers for over a decade and can identify with all these challenges”

“Can’t wait for you to deal with our biggest challenge, which is also number one on your list – the expat trap”

“as hard as it may be to admit it, we do struggle with number 2 – materialism”

In this issue we will deal with number 6. Who would think instant communication channels would be a problem?

This does not mean you should shut down these communication channels totally, butyou should intentionally work on finding balance.

If there are children in your family, it is vital for them to connect with grandparents and relatives back home (or wherever they are). Staying connected with your home church and staff is equally important.

It is, however, alarming to learn that some couples returns home from their jobs, both of them go online immediately after dinner to chat with people back home – and stay online until bedtime.

This is worrisome on two levels.

One, they should be spending quality time as a couple to make room for their relationship to grow, and to focus on the ministry opportunities that are all around them.

Two, they are removing themselves from interaction with the very same local people to whom they have come to serve.

It is important to have a system in place so that you can keep track of the time you spend communicating with family and friends back home.

It is equally important to keep track of interactions with the local people. It is way too easy to lose focus on the real reason you are there. A good question to ask yourself is, when was the last time we visited with local people or had them in our home?

As with all things electronic, a balance will not happen by accident; it requires a thoughtful plan and follow-through. How do you maintain this balance?

Stay tuned for the next challenge in a future issue of Tentmaking Briefs.

Tentmaker Challenges Series

/ Ari Rocklin

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We have been listening to returning tentmakers since 1998 and trying to learn from their experiences on how to prepare new tentmakers better. Based on their feedback we continually update the challenges of today’s tentmakers list and our course content.

Often, a returning tentmaker looks at this list with tears as they realize they were not the only ones facing these issues. It can be helpful to simply read the list as they begin the process of return culture shock. Not everyone faces all these challenges a much depends on the culture and region where they are or have been working.

Some are more equipped for challenges than others. What might seem an insignificant mole hill to one, is the proverbial mountain to the other. There are no right and wrong experiences, we are all learning as we go along.

I will be dealing with some of the challenges listed in upcoming issues of Tentmaking Briefs. Challenge number 5 below.

5. Locals with agendas

  • Want to practice English
  • Try to convert me
  • Help with migration
  • Sell you something
  • Debate politics or ideology

Speak English?

Some tentmakers report that people come up to them daily or more, who simply want to practice their English language skills. Over time this becomes frustrating and they start dreading these interactions. They feel that they are being taken advantage of and as a result there is a shift in their attitude toward locals. When this goes on long enough, avoidance becomes commonplace.

The converter

Then there are the locals who are trying to convert the expats to their own religion or philosophy. Some locals can be quite aggressive but if you hear them out and ask good questions, they will usually tone it down and perhaps even give you a chance to talk about what you believe.

Why are you here?

The big question locals have is why have you come to their country when everyone in their country wants to move to a better place. For them you represent the best chance at getting help in migrating to your country, if not for themselves, then a family member. Of course you are well aware that you can’t actually help them with this at all, so it is a futile discussion to be having in the first place, the result being yet another avoidance.

Business propositions

Everyone wants to improve their lot in life, so you can be seen as a potential business partner as locals try to sell you something that you can then export to your native country. Sometimes, it may even work out well, but the vast majority of the time, there is no hope for this to actually happen.

The debaters

Lastly, there are self described intellectuals who want to debate with you about the superiority of their political or religious system with facts and figures provided and also to point to flaws in your ideology. Most people find these kinds of talks a waste of time and try to avoid them.

You have read about five irritations or annoyances of tentmakers which lead to avoidance and maybe even dislike of locals. Fair enough. The big picture here is that locals (who have enough command of the English language to communicate with you) are coming to you to spend time with you and perhaps to learn from you. What a fantastic opportunity! When does this happen in your home country?

It is the fervent suggestion of this writer that you learn to look at these interactions as divine appointments instead of divine annoyances.

Stay tuned for further issues on the Tentmaker Challenges series.